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| User: | spencerlebear (4210855)
The Family Bear words of the polyamorously perverse
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| Name: | that SpencerBear |
| Website: | BigAss Slings by BadBear Worx "The Shape of Slings to Come" |
| Location: | Vancouver, B.C., Canada |
| Bio: | I'm a 52 year old bioboyleatherbear who's very out of practice at being single, living (once again) in my hometown, Vancouver B.C. I'm a tech (sound/lights), former forestry fire bear, into lefty queer politics, a plague survivor, and I have found somewhat late in life, and much to some of my friends horror, that I am no longer a Kinsey 7. Then I found out "Size Queen" doesn't just mean hot for big dick.
I am BadBear Worx in my spare time and I make machine washable nylon/poly sex slings that are amazingly comfortable, very practical, and twenty different colours of pretty.
I have memories of the bath raid demos in Toronto, and the White night riots in San Francisco. Bi, Poly, Switch, does not mean confused, just greedy!
Don't give up the ship just yet, there's a world that we all have to be able to live in. Join coalitions, make common cause, educate gently whenever you can. They aren't all stupid, just shortsighted. See the longer view, help make thinking about everyones future fashionable. I hate to say it, but a big part of changing the world is a marketing job, we have to be able to sell the need for change to more people.
Courage from The Book of Qualities
Courage has roots. She sleeps on a futon on the floor and lives close to the ground. Courage looks you straight in the eye. She is not impressed with power trippers and she knows first aid. Courage is not afraid to weep and she is not afraid to pray, even when she is not sure who she is praying to. When Courage walks, it is clear that she has made the journey from loneliness to solitude. The people who told me she is stern were not lying; they just forgot to mention that she is kind. ~~ J. Ruth Gendler. |
| Memories: | 4 entries |
| Interests: | 77: ageplay, badbear worx, bbw, bdsm, bearass slings, bears, bigass slings, bisexuality, blue feather, bois, bondage, books, bottoms, butches, canadian socialism, caning, cbt, changing the world, civilian space program, country queer, crafting, daddy/boi, daddy/boy, daddy/girl, eft, fags, farmer's markets, fat activism, fat dykes, femmes, fisting, flogging, forgiveness, ftm, gardening, gender, handballing, hiv, hope fiend, joni mitchell, kink, leather, leatherdaddy, living single, mac snob, nipples, nitrile gloves, otters, polyamory, queer, queers, s/m, safer sex, sca, science fiction, sero-divergent relationships, sex, sex sewing, signal whips, single tails, sjamboks, sluts for social change, smut, social democrat, sweat, switches, switching, tattoos, the beautiful south, the housemartins, the man i_want to_be, titplay, todd rundgren, tops, trans issues, transfags, transgender |
| Friends: |  | 73: | absythia, amythyst, androfagcub, anthrocubsf, aspinelesslaugh, badbearworx, bentwright, bitterlawngnome, bootedintexas, bound_tiger, boy_nate, breklor, byrdie, cubboy, dabearpnw, daddi_cade, daddypreston, daddyspring, dykeydoo, elainemiller, estrellada, ex_spencerle731, flannelbutch, fluffydescent, flux_art, girlfagpnw, girlshawn, grr_rob, gryphons_hole, hhholiday, huntrgreen, iceblink, jayz_grrrl, jenn_sunshine, jesus_h_biscuit, johnblack13, jw1776, kikisub, ktiger, kumazuki, leatherwitch, mattblakk, meshe_sub, minimeandme, miss_alicia_j, mitchellatticus, mizzzmarch, moominmuppet, naylandblake, nbpup, nidea, nightobeisance, panther, passionandsoul, scottybear, shadcub, snousle, spencerlebear, sttatus_quo, sumcheekymonkey, tatmoof, team_tia, tenebrax, thedeej, themonkeybear, thornyc, tonyawinter, ursinewave, wearbear, whitr, wildprincess, wrascalbc, wylddelirium |  | 9: | bi_bears, clanbluefeather, kinky_curves, metrovankink, nonfluffybdsm, postqueer, queer_daddygirl, queerdammit, rural_queers |  | 2: | bigfatblog, eroticseattle |
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| Mutual Friends: | 69: absythia, amythyst, androfagcub, anthrocubsf, aspinelesslaugh, badbearworx, bentwright, bitterlawngnome, bootedintexas, bound_tiger, boy_nate, breklor, byrdie, cubboy, daddi_cade, daddypreston, daddyspring, dykeydoo, elainemiller, estrellada, ex_spencerle731, flannelbutch, fluffydescent, flux_art, girlfagpnw, girlshawn, grr_rob, gryphons_hole, hhholiday, huntrgreen, iceblink, jayz_grrrl, jenn_sunshine, jesus_h_biscuit, jw1776, kikisub, ktiger, kumazuki, mattblakk, minimeandme, miss_alicia_j, mitchellatticus, mizzzmarch, moominmuppet, naylandblake, nbpup, nidea, nightobeisance, panther, passionandsoul, scottybear, shadcub, snousle, spencerlebear, sttatus_quo, sumcheekymonkey, tatmoof, team_tia, tenebrax, thedeej, themonkeybear, thornyc, tonyawinter, ursinewave, wearbear, whitr, wildprincess, wrascalbc, wylddelirium |
| Also Friend of: | 7: eoswildcat, kral_and_slave, mountdfw, nickylion, ocean_of_tears, solofister, thladyofshalott |
| Member of: | 8: bi_bears, clanbluefeather, kinky_curves, metrovankink, nonfluffybdsm, postqueer, queerdammit, rural_queers |
| Account type: | Basic Account |